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Talking with Clients about Sexuality

 

Probing: Asking Specific Questions

This list of issues should not be used as a checklist; it is merely a guide to help you remember the information points that are key to elicit.

HIV and other STI risk
During the exploratory discussion, try to elicit information about  key issues in order to assist the client to perceive and determine her/his risk for STIs, including:

  • Number (and gender) of sexual partners currently and in the past
  • Knowledge of partner’s sexual practices/other partners
  • Condom use
  • History of STIs/infections
  • Sexual practices/behaviors

Prenatal concerns
During discussion with prenatal clients, try to elicit information about potential concerns related to sexuality, including:

  • Lack of interest in sex
  • Increased time for arousal
  • Insufficient lubrication
  • Pain during or after intercourse
  • Vaginismus (difficulty allowing the vagina to relax enough to allow anything to enter)
  • Diminished orgasm/loss of orgasm
  • Fear of hurting the fetus
  • Postcoital bleeding
  • Cultural taboos around sexual intercourse during pregnancy that may lead partner to seek out other partners during that time (increasing risk to client when sexual activity resumes)

Postpartum concerns
During discussion with postpartum clients, try to elicit information about potential concerns related to sexuality, including:

  • Problems associated with resumption of sexual activity since birth of the child
  • Pain (vaginal or pelvic)
  • Insufficient lubrication (breastfeeding women)
  • Lack of desire
  • Diminished or absence of orgasm

Family planning client concerns
In addition to information about contraceptive history, needs, reproductive intentions and potential contraindications, explore factors associated with sexuality that may impact upon contraceptive choice and continuation, including:

  • Fear of becoming pregnant or fear of disease
  • Concerns about negative impact of the method on sexual pleasure (e.g. condoms, other barrier methods)
  • Diminished sexual response due to hormonal methods
  • HIV and other STI risk (see above)

Other issues for any client

  • Past surgery or diseases relevant to sexual functioning
  • Sexual concerns with onset of menopause
  • Sexual dysfunction in client or partner
  • Pain during sex
  • Lack of desire, orgasm or sexual satisfaction
  • Insufficient lubrication
  • Age at first intercourse
  • Experience of recent or past sexual coercion or violence
  • Impact of drug or alcohol use on sexual activity and risks
  • Partner’s use of/support of/communication about contraceptive use or disease prevention

 

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