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Sexual Response and Sexual Practices

Comparison of Sexual Response in Women and Men

Phase
Body changes
Both Sexes Women Men
Desire
(Duration: anywhere from a moment to many years)
Not applicable Not applicable Not applicable
Excitement
(Duration: anywhere from a few minutes to several hours)

 

Heart rate and blood pressure increase, body muscles tense, sexual flush occurs, nipples become erect, genital and pelvic blood vessels become engorged, and involuntary and voluntary muscles contract. The vagina lengthens and widens, the clitoris swells and enlarges, breasts increase in size, the labia swell and separate, the vagina becomes lubricated, and the uterus rises slightly. Vaginal lubrication is the key indicator of sexual excitement.

Note: Women generally reach this stage more slowly than men do.

The penis becomes erect, the scrotum thickens, and the testes rise closer to the body. Erection of the penis is the key indicator of sexual excitement.

Note: Men generally reach this stage faster stage than women do.

Plateau
(Duration: between 30 seconds and 3 minutes)
Breathing rate, heart rate, and blood pressure further increase, sexual flush deepens, and muscle tension increases. There is a sense of impending orgasm. The clitoris withdraws, the Bartholin’s glands lubricate, the areolae around nipples become larger, the labia continue to swell, the uterus tips to stand high in the abdomen, and the “orgasmic platform” develops (the lower vagina swells, narrows, and tightens). The ridge of the glans penis becomes more prominent, the Cowper’s glands secrete preejaculatory fluid, and the testes rise closer to the body.
Orgasm
(Duration: less than 1 minute)

 

Heart rate, breathing, and blood pressure reach their peak, sexual flush spreads over the body, and there is a loss of muscle control (spasms). The uterus, vagina, anus, and muscles of the pelvic floor contract 5 to 12 times at 0.8-second intervals.

Note: Women can have orgasm, move back into plateau stage, and achieve another orgasm (called “multiple orgasms”).

Ejaculation occurs (contractions of the ejaculatory duct in the prostate gland cause semen to be ejected through the urethra and penis), and the urethra, anus, and muscles of pelvic floor contract 3 to 6 times at 0.8-second intervals.
Resolution
(Duration: varies greatly)
Heart rate and blood pressure dip below normal, returning to normal soon afterward; the whole body, including the palms of hands and soles of feet, sweats; there is a loss of muscle tension, increased relaxation, and drowsiness. Blood vessels dilate to drain the pelvic tissues and decrease engorgement; the breasts and areolae decrease in size; nipples lose their erection; the clitoris resumes its prearousal position and shrinks slightly; the labia return to normal size and position; the vagina relaxes; the cervix opens to help semen travel up into the uterus—closing 20–30 minutes after orgasm; and the uterus lowers into the upper vagina (location of semen after male orgasm during penile–vaginal intercourse). Nipples lose their erection; the penis becomes softer and smaller; the scrotum relaxes, and the testes drop farther away from the body. Depending on a number of factors (including age), the refractory period in men, during which erection cannot be achieved, may last anywhere from 5 minutes to 24 hours or more.

 

Special Notes:
  • Penetration is not necessary for sexual gratification to occur. Sexual stimulation and orgasm can take place for both sexual partners without penetration.
  • Completing the five phases of the sexual response cycle is not necessary for sexual fulfillment.
  • Orgasm may vary in intensity from one person to another and from one sexual encounter to another. For some, it may involve intense spasm and loss of awareness; for others, it may be signaled by as little as a sigh or subtle relaxation.

 

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